This is driving me mad!

Twilight_Zone · **Posted:** Thu Aug 10, 2006 8:37 pm

Ok this topic may get locked but I need some adivce.

Ok, my x-boyfriend and my friend broke up a few days ago and I want to go back out with my "x" but i'm affraid i'll make my friend mad considering I got really ticked when me and my "x" broke up and someone wanted to ask him out. But he's really nice and such(trust me its not for the looks i'd never go for the looks!) and I want to go back out but i'm affraid.

Any advice?

P.S. sorry if this is to personal also please dont ask why we broke up.

Tibbeh · **Posted:** Thu Aug 10, 2006 8:51 pm

Uh.. I really don't know what to tell ya. I've never even dated, so I dont' know how the whole 'what do you do now' thing works. >< But I'd say, if you really like him, go for it.

JazzyWolf · **Posted:** Thu Aug 10, 2006 10:04 pm

Well, I'm not the greatest expert, but as far as I know, go for it. I sounds like you really like the guy and he seems nice enough. And if your considering going back out with him then either your way too attached or he is just a really good guy. I'll just assume he's a really nice guy.

As far as your friend, it all really depends on how close they were. If some one wanted to go out with my "x", I'd tell them to go for it (though we've been apart for several months now). Where as with a friend of mine, if she broke up with her boyfriend, and some one started going out with him, she would be so mad and jealous. So it's hard to say. I think though since you already have feelings for him that your friend might understand a bit more.

Also, if your friend does get mad with you wanting to go out with him, it depends on what you value more. Your friendship or having a relationship with this guy. Personaly I think that relationships should not ever come in the way of a friendship. That's all I've got, hope that it helped.

HalfBreed · **Posted:** Thu Aug 10, 2006 10:14 pm

Personally I think a true friend shouldn't care who you date. If that guy is an "X" of your friend then apparently something didn't go right between them and it's over between them. Your friend shouldn't give a ... you know what lol

Sam(SRA) · **Posted:** Thu Aug 10, 2006 10:35 pm

Honestly, he shouldn't have even gone out with her knowing she was your friend. That's disrespectful.

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want to go back out with my "x" but i'm affraid i'll make my friend mad considering I got really ticked when me and my "x" broke up

Why should you care if she gets mad? If i was in this situation, i'd forget about them both. If my "x" went out with my friend, i'd be mad pissed. If you really want to get back with him, it's up to you. Just don't care about what she thinks, unless she threatens and it gets violent, then you have a problem

Twilight_Zone · **Posted:** Sat Aug 12, 2006 9:21 am

I'm sorry all. You made really good points but I dont know how to reply to them. :oops:

I told my friends that I liked him and one of them called him on his cell and asked him out for me.

Lakoswolf · **Posted:** Mon Aug 14, 2006 8:47 pm

You could always visit http://www.grouphug.us and see what other people have done....

Tibbeh · **Posted:** Tue Aug 15, 2006 9:11 pm

wolfhound wrote:

I'm sorry all. You made really good points but I dont know how to reply to them. :oops:

I told my friends that I liked him and one of them called him on his cell and asked him out for me.

That's ok. ^^

Oh dear... What did he say when your friend asked him out for you? (If you don't want to tell us, tis ok.

)

Twilight_Zone · **Posted:** Wed Aug 16, 2006 3:53 pm

tibb_wolf wrote:

wolfhound wrote:

I'm sorry all. You made really good points but I dont know how to reply to them. :oops:

I told my friends that I liked him and one of them called him on his cell and asked him out for me.

That's ok. ^^

Oh dear... What did he say when your friend asked him out for you? (If you don't want to tell us, tis ok.

)

He said yes

But sadly we broke up today :cry:

JazzyWolf · **Posted:** Wed Aug 16, 2006 8:31 pm

wolfhound wrote:

tibb_wolf wrote:

wolfhound wrote:

I'm sorry all. You made really good points but I dont know how to reply to them. :oops:

I told my friends that I liked him and one of them called him on his cell and asked him out for me.

That's ok. ^^

Oh dear... What did he say when your friend asked him out for you? (If you don't want to tell us, tis ok.

)

He said yes

But sadly we broke up today :cry:

I'm sorry to hear that. Well, at least you tried, it's better than doing nothing at all.

Twilight_Zone · **Posted:** Wed Aug 16, 2006 9:11 pm

JazzyWolf wrote:

wolfhound wrote:

tibb_wolf wrote:

wolfhound wrote:

I'm sorry all. You made really good points but I dont know how to reply to them. :oops:

I told my friends that I liked him and one of them called him on his cell and asked him out for me.

That's ok. ^^

Oh dear... What did he say when your friend asked him out for you? (If you don't want to tell us, tis ok.

)

He said yes

But sadly we broke up today :cry:

I'm sorry to hear that. Well, at least you tried, it's better than doing nothing at all.

Awww dont be sorry it wasnt your falt.

Banshee · **Posted:** Sun Apr 15, 2007 7:00 pm

It's not locked yet. Wow

Banshee · **Posted:** Mon Apr 16, 2007 6:31 am

Dingo wrote:

Banshee ~ Kid wrote:

It's not locked yet. Wow

That's no reason to post in it if it's so old...please stop reviving these old topics. This is like the fifth one that hadn't been posted in since last July until you posted here.

Im sorry I didn't know I wasn't allowed to.

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