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 Post subject: this happend a few days ago and I feel like crud
PostPosted: Fri Jun 30, 2006 10:14 pm 
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Ok, Well my friend and i were messin around with a couple of guys we knew(both of them were 13 and 16 yrs old) and one of them put their arm around my throught (put me in a headlock) and was pulling me down while he was croutching and getting way to close for comfort(i think you see what i'm saying). I sat on my knees(or on my feet so to say) and things got worse. i feel really cruddy now if you see what i'm saying. I also told one of my guy friends and he got mad at that one guy who did that to me. Hes like the brother i never had(my friend whos a guy).

I was prakticly raped in this guys front yard! He said a really nasty thing in the prosses and telling my to bend over I need help. I'm sorry if this topic is gross and unsessasary but I feel very violated and unrespcted of my wellbeing. I'm going to cry he wouldnt let me go and he was getting reall close. I want some advise or someone to talk to. I didnt and will not tell my parents about this. :cry: Mods please dont lock this topic I just want someone to talk to about it. :cry:

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Whoa...he never should have done that to you. I still don't understand why he did it in the first place. He showed no warning of it beforehand? He just went ahead and touched you like that? My only piece of advice would be to tell your parents as soon as you can. This could be considered sexual harassment and he could even be sued and go to jail for it. That's all I've got to offer.

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No he shouldnt have. Also he said "your turn" because I was destracted by his friend I couldnt get away and he got me. I'm affraid to tell my parents though because all they will do is ask questions and send me to counsiling they wont really do anything like talk to his parents. or sue. Thanks Kari.

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Still, I think it would be best to talk to them about it instead of seeking help by yourself. Trust me, when it comes to good advice, parents are the best people to ask. :wink: Good luck with everything.

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This could be considered sexual harassment, seek help straight away. :wink:

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Merry_BnW wrote:
This could be considered sexual harassment, seek help straight away. :wink:



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One time in a pool this one dude did something like that to me and my friend


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This is why I've been getting pissed off whenever I see a boy messing around with his friends. Lately, I've been getting mad when I just see a boy walk by. It's like....I'm just so MAD at them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :evil: Atleast the ones at my school...>< The boys at my school are all just big fat jerks. I just wanna break their stupid necks.

Anyways, I agree that you should tell your parents...But hey, I don't know what it's like. You could also look into taking a self-defense class. Well...that might be expensive...If another boy trys something like that again, like, they get you in a headlock and pull you down, if you can move your elbow or hand, take your elbow and try to hit him in the stomach with all of your strength. Then, if that works, and he's distracted for a bit, punch him in his stupid face!!!>< If you can...I don't think I'd be able to...Or you could kick him in the face. Stupid boys...>< I only trust a few...>< You could also take your hand and lift it palms up, then shove it up his nose. That can break his nose. :twisted: evillaugh.gif Sorry about that...But may be just try to tell your parents?

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OMG!! That boy is an idiot and a sick person, you should definately seek help and telling your parents would be wise too, if you wanna talk I'd be happy to help, just PM me. I'm on everyday.

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Thanks everyone! :D Blackwolf thanks i'm not a priss or anything but his 16 year old friend was helping him. Anyways Kodiwolf i'm sorry that happend. And I guess I will tell my parents.

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Yes that can be classified as 'sexual harassment' or 'rape' since you were forced into doing this. It would be a very good idea to tell your parents, since this is really rather a serious matter.

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ok thanks EVeryone and DH and WW I want to tell my parents but i'm nervus.

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Your going to be nervous, but its the right thing to do and I think they would be proud of you for telling them.

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If he tried to do that to you, you might as well call the cops on him. Seriously, you don't want to be the one who says, "I knew a rapist in the making and I did nothing about it," do you?


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ok thanks EVeryone and DH and WW I want to tell my parents but i'm nervus.


Hmm, you could just tell one parent to begin with, say, your mum, tell your mum you need to talk, choose a quiet time and just tell her the exact same thing you posted here, see what she says and it's more than likely she'll tell your dad.

You will feel nervous and scared but once you've done it you'll feel a bit better knowing that your parents know.

If you want any more help you can PM me any time.

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