Wolfboy, not all members see your post. Sure, there's the odd ignorant person, but not ALL of them, like ya said. This happens to me all the time, but the people (judging by their conversation) don't notice me and that's not a big enough deal to complain about it.
But, it
can be good to chat with members you've never talked to. You just have to type in "-is ignored-". They notice me! It works for me every time. Then I ask, "what are we talkin' about?" Then I'm included!
Don't be so bad and don't start a rant

Maybe you can tell the people in the SB your problem.
Regards,
Wolf girl