Ohkay I understand what you are getting at but you make it seem like EVERYONE here is after you. When you make a rant,you shouldnt direct it completely to yourself. It will make people mad at you because it sounds like a pity me post.
Number one: if people who arent a member or mod for that matter get into the database and you know them,and let mods know you know them,its all your own fault.
You don't want the attention? Don't announce things!
Now they should forgive you if this is all over,but if you are still not telling them stuff thats going on,you are breaking rules.
How would you like it if you made a site and nonmembers hacked into its database?
i bet you'd be pretty mad.
Steet put alot of work into this site and if you aren't willing to respect it enough to make sure things YOU can stop don't happen,well its all on you.
No one else made this mistake or forced you.
Mods are only doing there job as steet assigned.
I'm not following anyone on this,because I had no idea this happened however I have my opinion and even though Im not on your side on this one,you need to respect all opinions,like it or not.
Go ahead and rant to me how you think i am wrong.I won't change my mind and certainly won't reply to rudeness.Waste of time.....

As you said we need to respect eachother.
I'm not putting you down,or not trying at least. I don't hate you,but I don't like the idea of nonmembers accessing a database and you knowing info and not answering.