The Members vs. The Mods
Balto Fans vs. Lion King Fans
Wolf Lovers vs. Wolf Haters…and so on!
I come to this forum everyday, 2-3 times a day to basically the same thing.
FIGHTS. Honestly, it’s like a Texas Cage Match in here 24/7!
There’s a fine line between a
debate and an
argument; a line which is crossed everyday of the year; be it this forum or other forums.
Here’s an example of a debate:
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User1: I think foxes are cute. I’d like to have one as a pet!
User2: I disagree; though they may be cute, foxes are wild animals who have a scent to them that makes them unsatisfactory house pets.
User1: The scent glands are easily removed. I’ve known a lot of people with foxes who say they make great pets!
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Now, it turns into a heated debate…
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User2: Foxes belong in the wild; end of story. You shouldn’t keep wild animals as pets.
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Notice that User2 is getting frustrated that User1 won’t listen to reason. Rather then come up with a better reason why User1 shouldn’t get a pet fox; it comes down to a “because-I-said-so” argument.
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User1: I don’t have to listen to you! What do you know? I’m getting a fox and that’s that!
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Enter a new opinion….
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User3: I agree with User2, wild animals shouldn’t be kept as pets because they wouldn’t be happy without their freedom. If you really love foxes, User1, you should enjoy them from a distance.
User1: Why is everyone picking on me?

All I want is a fox to raise and everyone says no! Maybe I’ll just get a goldfish instead!

Will that make you all happy?

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WAIT! Now the Mods are “bad people who don’t do their job” because they locked innocent User1’s topic for no reason (or, on the contrary, they didn't do it fast enough)!! Let’s make a bunch of topics on how bad the Mods are! Who knows? A topic like that might be more popular then the “TLK doesn’t get the respect Balto does!!” topic!
People: debates are great. That’s what forums are for, right? To debate with people all around the world; to learn about their opinions. But when it gets to the point where you actually become ANGRY with someone because they don’t agree with you, then it’s clear that you’re not mature enough to handle debate topics and should stick with discussion topics.
It’s not a debate unless someone disagrees with you.A debate is also useless unless some of the people with whom you are debating
agrees with you; without that, you’re alone preaching to folks who will never understand your point of view. I’ve learned that from my many wolf/wolfdog topics in the Animals forum. I’m alone in my arguments, because the people who I’m trying to reason with have never owned wolves or wolfdogs, therefore they don’t understand my reasonings (as I
do own wolfdogs), and I am alone in the debate. Rather then continuously flood the forum with my opinions (2 topics isn’t flooding

), I’d rather just keep them to myself; I know wolfdogs make great pets, even if I’m the ONLY one who knows that. It'll be my little secret.
A debate is a discussion in which some of the people involved believe one thing, while the others involved agree and disagree with certain points.
Agreement and disagreement = a debate. If you can’t handle that; don’t debate. That simple.
Don’t blame the Mods; don’t go around hating the other members and flaming in the ShoutBox. Be mature and act like adults rather then the primates Darwin
thinks you evolved from. There’s no reason to hate anyone you’re debating with, and there’s no reason to hate the Mods because they didn’t ‘do their job’. And, for pity’s sake,
WHO CARES ABOUT HOW MANY FANS BALTO HAS AND HOW MANY FANS THE LION KING HAS? They’re both great films with great characters. TLK fans need to accept that this is
also a Balto fansite, and Balto fans need to stop telling TLK fans to go to another site. (I don't think Steet would be pleased by the idea of his members leaving his site

).
In the Spirit of the Holidays and life in general:
Can’t we all just get along?