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I recieved a phone call today, a horible one which has changed my life. My girlfriend Olette, was visiting America for her aunts birthday. She was in her car with her mum. A driver went through a red light while they were crossing the road, he was speeding too, they had no time to react and were hit hard... Olette didn't make it. I found out a few hours ago, I know some may be thinking, well why tell you guys? It hurts so much and I had tot ell somebody, and...I just do not know what to do, we were going out for three months, we were inspereable, having gorwn up together....It just hurts so bad.

I'm so sorry about that. May she fly with the angels in Heaven. *Moment of silence*

I am so so sorry for you loss! I'm gonna pray for you. Just take each day one step at a time. Give yourself time. Look at old pictures and make sure you laugh ok?

*Starts singing 'Wind Beneath My Wings'*

I'm so sorry for your loss I will keep her in my prayers, I wish I could say more. <3

NUUUUUUUUUUUU! I know how you feel, losing someone you cared about, I lost my Aunty Rita to cancer in September. She died so suden and I had to learn the day AFTER. So, Your Girfriend is in my prayers, and may she look down on you and protect you, Roxas and again, I am deepl deeply deeply sorry.

Roxas, I'm going to make 2 song tributes for you and Olette.

Roxas i'm so sorry to hear that, take it easy for a while like a long while and review the past times that you two shared and only think of those or also the funniest of times, i give you my best wishes and i'll pray for the both of you. hope you feel better soon.

Wow that's really sad, she was still young..

Unfortunately, I don't have any advice for you. I try not to think about death often. But there is one thing..Don't blame it on yourself, that's the WORST thing you could ever do, and I'm sure it would make her upset also. All I can say is that I'm truely sorry (And sorry isn't something I say often) and that I hope you, along with her family and friends, will be ok.

I'm so sorry Roxas.

I know what it feels like to lose a loved one, because I am going to my grandads funeral today.( sorry for going off topic) Well Roxas just think of all the good times you and Olette had and remember that she's in a better place now ( May thy divine lord keep her blessed soul safe) Amen

Another thing, Roxas....she's not gone, just her body is, not her spirit, think about it, she's around you, watching you, keeping you safe and sound. She didn't die at all. She's with you everywhere, and in your heart. It may seem that part that kept her there may be locked, but open it up again to remember, it'll be hard but you need to keep yuorself open to her spirit.