I never knew pain could feel this bad

Ecliptica · **Posted:** Sat Jul 01, 2006 2:53 am

DarkHusky wrote:

Ecliptica wrote:

wolfhound wrote:

Togo wrote:

If I understood your post correctly, what are you waiting to run away from your house?

Running away is not as easy as it sounds I have tried befor(not because i was mad but because I was scared of my parents) you have to worrie about food,mony,water,shelter.

Running away is not easy and also its ilegel so if I do that id be breaking the law and well I don't want to do that and I don't want to get punished for that, I get punished enough as it is.

The only thing I can do for now is wait untill I can do something else, but allI know is if he hurts my dog like last time im going to snap and we are more then likely going to have a physical fight like last time, but my mom ca get pissed al she wants for the house being trashed, I don't care, im going to fight back, even though last time me and him fought it left me with a broken arm and cuts all of, and glass stuck in me and the house trashed, I will go and fight him if nessesery but I won't if I don't need to.

Thank you all for everything *gives a big wolf hug to everyone*

Good dont run away and dont fight back please! all of us worry for u. anyway i wont bombard u with pms cuz of my sis. Well take care of urself nyoh!

Ok, but if I didn't do something last time, my dog would have died so if he does do something like that again I have no choice but to step in, my dog is all I have now, since my brother died.

But thanks^^

Mario · **Posted:** Sat Jul 01, 2006 4:26 am

why must the good die young? there must be retrobution! the abuser will pay dearly for his tretureous crimes! :cry:

You should dissown your father and come live with my family...

Ecliptica · **Posted:** Sat Jul 01, 2006 5:04 am

Togo wrote:

Ecliptica wrote:

Running away is not easy and also its ilegel so if I do that id be breaking the law and well I don't want to do that and I don't want to get punished for that, I get punished enough as it is.

The only thing I can do for now is wait untill I can do something else, but allI know is if he hurts my dog like last time im going to snap and we are more then likely going to have a physical fight like last time, but my mom ca get pissed al she wants for the house being trashed, I don't care, im going to fight back, even though last time me and him fought it left me with a broken arm and cuts all of, and glass stuck in me and the house trashed, I will go and fight him if nessesery but I won't if I don't need to.

Thank you all for everything *gives a big wolf hug to everyone*

I don't know much about US law because I don't live there, but I can guess that it does exist something like the self-defense there, and running away for you (if what you said is the truth) wouldn't be like brake the law, because it's an application of self-defense; also, the death of you brother could be another good reason.
If you go to an hospital, they can easly tell if your bones had been broken several times, how you got scars and everything. Your body, in this case, would be a living proof for the social service and for a lawyer.

P.S. I didn't mean run away and live on your own, but look for help.

Well my father wouldn't even phone the cops he would come after because he likes the thrill of the hunt so he would come after me like it was a game.

Yeah x-rays do show but my father says to the one who takes the x-rays that I was biking and lie and well he is beleved like always.

Ecliptica · **Posted:** Sat Jul 01, 2006 5:41 am

Togo wrote:

Ecliptica wrote:

Well my father wouldn't even phone the cops he would come after because he likes the thrill of the hunt so he would come after me like it was a game.

Yeah x-rays do show but my father says to the one who takes the x-rays that I was biking and lie and well he is beleved like always.

No, it's easy to recognise the difference, even I could do it (and I'm not a doctor). Doctors aren't stupid, or at least not all of them.

Yeah I would think so but they said oh well he should be more carefull, unless my dad paid him not to say anything, hes done that before with diffrent things.

UKthewhitewolf · **Posted:** Sat Jul 01, 2006 10:29 am

You know Ecliptica it's against the law for him to do this to you in exactly the same way it's illegal for you to run away.

There are many organizations for people who live in this sort of situation and they can help you find a way out unharmed, there are websites if talking on the phone is out of the question and they will contact the police and social workers and hospitals for you anonymously and they'll take you to a hospital for x-rays without you dad and the doctors can tell when it's abuse and when it's just you falling off your bike a few times, bones break a certain way and there's no mistaking it.

Trying to get through this on your own is not a good idea, you need help and a child protection agency might just be exactly what you need.

Me, my mum and my bro seeked help from a agency just the same because my dad was abusive too, he was'nt quite as bad as yours is but with time he would have gotten worse, they helped us move away and now me and my bro call the shots everytime we see him, if we want to, it's completely up to us now, you should at least give it a try, if you're willing to fight him then going to a website about help should'nt be that much of a task.

None of us want you to get hurt and help is what you need.

Tibbeh · **Posted:** Sat Jul 01, 2006 3:36 pm

Ecliptica wrote:

Running away is not easy and also its ilegel so if I do that id be breaking the law and well I don't want to do that and I don't want to get punished for that, I get punished enough as it is.

But it's more illeagal to do all those things your father has done to you. He's a lying son-of-a-B! Can't you get amancipated? That would get you away from him.

Ecliptica · **Posted:** Sun Jul 02, 2006 6:15 am

Well I told a few people, but they couldn't do anything, but I don't want any of my friends to get involved because I don't want them hurt.

It's ok, I know I can wait 2 more years, iv been going though it since I was 6 so im sure I can manage, I have also not been at home alot for the past week, mainly because im busy with things not around where I live so its been ok for now.

Yes I know what he is doing is wrong, but I tryed the police but that failed so im just going to wait and put up with it till im 18, I know I can do it, because to me there is no meaning in can't, and im also not one to give up, so I will be fine, I hope but thanks for your concern, it means so much^^

Olivia_the_Harper · **Posted:** Tue Jul 04, 2006 8:45 am

Well, Ecliptica, if I were you, I'd get professional help online, but I have no idea what this is like...I'm basically spoiled.

Ecliptica · **Posted:** Tue Jul 04, 2006 10:21 pm

Olivia_loves_Link wrote:

Well, Ecliptica, if I were you, I'd get professional help online, but I have no idea what this is like...I'm basically spoiled.

*laughs softly* thanks for the advice^^

Maiyun · **Posted:** Sun Jul 16, 2006 4:43 pm

I would of so ran away by now years ago

Ecliptica · **Posted:** Sun Jul 16, 2006 5:32 pm

Thank you all^^ I will concider looking at the posibilitys.

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