I hope I'm not bumping an old topic or anything, because I feel this is pretty important.
Zenon (Alex) wrote:
i would just really like to know what they gain from making me go home and cry my eyes out for 4 hrs. What good does it do them?
because they know you've been hurt, that;s why. They WANT to drag you down and make you feel like dirt, and hurt you and all that crap, just so THEY can feel more powerful and bring themselves up. I'd wager that they have stuff going on inside them. Many bullies bully others simply because they feel insecure themselves.
One step to preventing bullying, is to look confident and strong (not neccesarily physically)
Always have friends around, Bullies are more likely to target you when you're alone.
This isn't professional advice- but from my experiences, this is what I have found out.
and in conclusion, bullying hurts. I'm the "new kid" at school this year, I'm older then I look, but everybody automatically assumes that I'm a stereotypical "stupid little freshman." -.-
This is because I get confused about certain things easily, and have some hearing problems, and when I'm suprised, nervous or scared, I freeze up and can't respond.
The school is about as large as L.A <.< and Im always wandering around, feeling lost and stressed because of the heavy workload. I do have people I sit with at lunch, but I have been ditched and replaced several times, they aren't true friends, just people I hang out with so I don't feel so alone. Now, I do have some good buddies, an older (senior) girl who actually was nice to me, a talkative girl in my first period, and a friend from English.
Everyone, keep in mind that bullies come in all forms, not just other students, but adults- even teachers.
I've been bullied and humiluated in front of the class by a teacher, while everyone just stared at me like I was some sort of idiot, it hurt me a lot, i was at the point of tears, but after school, I tearfully told my mom about it and she helped me take action to stop it. Nothing has happened since, thank God, but the students will never change xD