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I know what you're going through. A few years ago, my grandfather died. My family was upset, but they were no where near as upset as I was. He was pretty much my idol. I wanted to be like him so badly. I tried to do everything he did. When he died, I was unconsolable. During that time, I did some stupid things that I am not proud of now. They still haunt me today. But you will have to get over it at some point in time. I know it takes time, sometimes a lot of time, and that's o.k., but don't let it consume your life. You just have to remember that it happens to everybody at some point, it's unavoidable. Trust me, the last thing you want to do is to do something to yourself, because you will only hurt the people around you. Remember, there are some people here that do understand you, and we are here if needed.

For what concerns Kodi Girl: I'll be frank: I don't advocate people talking 'bout their personal problems on BS. But you have, so I might as well try to give you some useful advice for coping with the hardship your going through (in stead of making an effort to make you feel even worse, as some have apparently tried). Life has its ups. But it also has it downs, and it'd be a mistake to try and deny that those down times can be hard: sometimes, life just hits rock-bottom. In such situations, I always found it relieving just to detach and stop caring. You'd be amazed how liberating that can be, to just not give a darn for some time, be the observer in stead of the actor, and then come back almost refreshed. And it also clears your vision, makes you see who's actually out there for you, 'cause you'd be amazed how much you fail to see when your vision's obscured by the shroud of depression.

As for Outlaw: your are not a mod, nor are you steet, and yet you go through elaborate lengths to lecture others on what is allowed on BS. You do not have the authority to do so.
You voice your opinion. I ask you, why? To help someone who might or might not be in need of help? Or to bring them down, even though it does not benefit you in any way? 'Cause that is what you did, and judging by your crude language, that was what you intended to do all along. You must feel very proud indeed. You state you are entitled to voice your opinion, but I beg to differ: if you only use that right with the intent of bashing others, than you do not have the right to voice your opinion, because you'd just be abusing that right.
ps: cold-blooded? I doubt it; hotheaded would be more appropriate.

Ok, I think it's about time this was dropped, someone disagreed, it's an internet forum, it'll happen. I really don't want to have to lock Kodi girl's topic so can we leave it be now.

Yeah, I read it.

I think it would serve you well do spend less time on the computer and more time out in the real world. If you feel alone why not join a club such as a sports or social club? People in those kind of places are just looking for friends and people to talk to. I've been through one heck of a lot but through self confidence and help from others I still feel great most of the time.

Whatever you do, don't throw yourself of your apartment building. That would be stupid and cowardice.
Of course people care - you have to give them a chance.

Dorry to hear of your troubles.

You are not alone, many people are in the same-or worse situation/s than you.
and many of the people above have been supportive.
My suggestions:
try and join a club or group of some type or do volunteer work you can make friends and it will take your mind off your problems.

Try to get consoling if you can.

Listen to happy music, read jokes or watch funny/happy movies, books are good too.

Talk to friends and family, they do care, I'm sure.

A poem for you:
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep
I am a 1,000 winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sun on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled light
I am the soft star that shines at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there; I did not die.


Hope I have helped

Sheba

I read it, and I do care. Take it from me, I had absolutely no friends in grades 3-5. I remember not having anyone come over to my house to play. Then in 8th grade, I ate lunch alone again the entire year. But it worked out! Now I have great friends who I love and trust. You just have to be patient and learn to be outgoing again. I am really sorry about your aunt. Just pm me any time if you want. I'm here for you

I appreciate all of your help ^^ all of you. I've been okay so far, but you might want to look at the Update on the first page...