People and Their Rudeness

Rosetta(Original) · **Posted:** Fri Apr 13, 2007 8:57 pm

silver_balto wrote:

dude, you and I think a lot alike.

now it's my turn to give some advice; (ahem)

First off, if you post a rude message in a forum topic, you are a tool plain and simple. No one needs to hear your opinion if all it does is offend people or make them want to kill you. (mine doesn't count, so mleh!)

Second, there is a saying that stats; "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." Ring any bells? No? Thought not. Abide by it. If you have to complaign, then post a topic and rant about the topic you don't like. Let's see how long it takes before your topic is closed for pointlessness.

Finally, if you even decided ahead of time, "yeah, I'm going to be a little jerk today and post rude messages on other people's topic." you need a new hobby. Try thinking about constructive messages to post or do something lese. If you life revolves around making others angry, become a politician or something.

Oh ya....make a topic in the rant board about how you dislike another topic. I wonder how well that would fly. It would be locked before the one you were talking about. Its easier just to pm a mod about problems. Topics for that type of thing are un-necessary. I do this type of thing alot when I see a topic that is very similar to a one awhile back.Isn't it easier to ask the MODS if a topic has already been made? Instead of going with it anyways.Especially the wolf one I saw. I think its pretty darn obvious that there has probably been a wolf topic before. Come on now this is a balto site. :roll:

Finally I do not conside my above thoughts rude. This is the rant board so I shall rant and if you cannot take my constructive critism,than do not reply back! Its simple. :wink:

I'm not rude at all. I have alot of friends that are mods so partially why I point out a not so new topic is because I know kari and most of the other mods will probably read it too. Especially Tibby. XD She stalks me.SO I'm done.

TO HRRYNRM: Notice how I never said anything negative on the other wolf topic on there. If the topic you got all annoyed at me about for making a "rude" comment was better thought out I wouldn't have said anything at all.

Kirada · **Posted:** Sat Apr 14, 2007 11:11 am

wolfgurly666 wrote:

yeah rudeness is completely avoidable....just be nice

I [really] think you're wrong here... Not everyone will be all hippity-hop-happy at any form of opinion (opposing people actually make a topic more interesting, as long as there is no war started).

When you say "avoidable", it makes me think that you can 'cheat' it. Reminds me of this: "Death is unavoidable" (no matter what 'Final Desination' says >_>).

wolfygurly666 wrote:

being rude will get you no where...

I do agree with that. But yet, some kid, anyone, can come in and start a site-wide war/argument with three words.

The thing is this; we should respect everyone for their own words/comments and hope they know what they're talking about (it's obvious when they don't). And if they do step 'over the line', we have moderators for that.

angryunicorn · **Joined:** Wed Dec 28, 2005 10:41 am **Posts:** 3023

Kirada wrote:

wolfgurly666 wrote:

yeah rudeness is completely avoidable....just be nice

I [really] think you're wrong here... Not everyone will be all hippity-hop-happy at any form of opinion (opposing people actually make a topic more interesting, as long as there is no war started).

When you say "avoidable", it makes me think that you can 'cheat' it. Reminds me of this: "Death is unavoidable" (no matter what 'Final Desination' says >_>).

Uh, avoidable means that its just common courtesy that you not be rude

No one cares if anyone has a bad day, there's no excuse to just be plain mean.

Panic_Wolf · **Posted:** Sat Apr 14, 2007 12:03 pm

I agree with this rant because, well, even if you've had a bad day, people shouldn't have to suffer from your bad attitude. No, we don't want that. And if you need to take your anger out, don't do it here and make us all mad. Like Dingo said, it's HOW you express anger.

Kirada · **Posted:** Sat Apr 14, 2007 2:03 pm

All right, I was just pointing what I thought you mean (again, I misunderstood).

I know the feeling, though. Someone was swearing in the rp and I politely asking him to stop. He continued, telling me to 'get off his case'. Later, he said it was because he was angered at his little brother for not wrestling properly.

I have come in when I'd had a bad day (this morning, I could have died with a freak air-pack accident, but I also made the same mistake to a kid who isn't even 15), and when I start to get upset or someone does something I know will bother me, I simply say "I'm not in the mood" and sometimes, why.

I actually don't understand how a lot of people feel better by hurting someone else, exspecially over the internet. -_-

Rosetta(Original) · **Posted:** Sat Apr 14, 2007 3:10 pm

catwhohas14tails wrote:

Kirada wrote:

wolfgurly666 wrote:

yeah rudeness is completely avoidable....just be nice

I [really] think you're wrong here... Not everyone will be all hippity-hop-happy at any form of opinion (opposing people actually make a topic more interesting, as long as there is no war started).

When you say "avoidable", it makes me think that you can 'cheat' it. Reminds me of this: "Death is unavoidable" (no matter what 'Final Desination' says >_>).

Uh, avoidable means that its just common courtesy that you not be rude

No one cares if anyone has a bad day, there's no excuse to just be plain mean.

Cat,do you think its really that rude to say you are annoyed with seeing same topics? Like the wolf one....hasn't there been enough wolf topics? Doesn't it get BORING to talk about them ALL the time and over and over again? It makes me sick and tired,just because its annoying to me doesn't mean its rude,does it?

Rosetta(Original) · **Posted:** Sat Apr 14, 2007 5:45 pm

wolfgurly666 wrote:

i do believe that she was responding to the responce kirada gave me... i dont think she was addressing you. but for what its worth..yeah i have to agree that it does get quite annoying....but alls you can really do is ignore it... if steet or any of the other mods dont think there's a problem in it...then there is nothing to be done....i dont really think its all that big of deal.....if you've noticed its mainly the "newer" members that do this....and they really don't know any better....so just leave this sorta thing up to the mods....i mean that is their job...let them deal with it...its what they do....like i said if they have nothing to say bout it then there is probably nothing wrong with it in the first place....if it annoys you then jusdt leave it alone.... :wink:

I know she was adressing you but I just wanna know what she thinks about my thoughts. Thats all. :wink:

silver_balto · **Posted:** Sat Apr 14, 2007 7:34 pm

Staff Sergeant Bruno wrote:

silver_balto wrote:

dude, you and I think a lot alike.

now it's my turn to give some advice; (ahem)

First off, if you post a rude message in a forum topic, you are a tool plain and simple. No one needs to hear your opinion if all it does is offend people or make them want to kill you. (mine doesn't count, so mleh!)

Opinions will offend someone, regardless of what it is about. Everyone has different views about things...thats why its called an OPINION. Why wouldn't your opinion count? Are you better than everyone else and cannot be critized, regardless of what you put?

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Second, there is a saying that stats; "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." Ring any bells? No? Thought not. Abide by it. If you have to complaign, then post a topic and rant about the topic you don't like. Let's see how long it takes before your topic is closed for pointlessness.

Dont generalize, I remember that from kindergarden...so dont tell me if I remember it or not...thank you

Not all complaint rants are bad, meaning that they wont be locked. This is one, is it not? Granted, rude comments is a rather broad topic to try to fight, but none the less, it is one.

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Finally, if you even decided ahead of time, "yeah, I'm going to be a little jerk today and post rude messages on other people's topic." you need a new hobby. Try thinking about constructive messages to post or do something lese. If you life revolves around making others angry, become a politician or something.

While I agree with this statement, at the same time, I have to say "Everyone has a bad day." That is not to be used as a daily or weekly excuse though.

Just showing how I view things. You never have the complete picture until you've walked a mile in another persons shoes.

well put Sarg. You got me on all three statements. I must agree that I may have been out of line a bit in what I said, but at the same time, I still stand by what I say.

TheWolfOfMusic(Matt) · **Posted:** Sun Apr 15, 2007 7:17 am

Heh, I agree with this whole rant.

I have even lost count of how many times I've seen this. Its just pointless, posting up something 'I'm not in a good mood..' or 'lol, I'm crazy' or 'I'm so sad today....*sigh*'. Or soemthing like that. Its just called being imature. Who cares if your in a bad mood, being hyper, or sad/depressed? We don't need to know. Just keep it to yourself :roll:

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Well, thats all I can really say about this. But man, its so anoyying when someone comes up with something like that.

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