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Draco · **Posted:** Sun Nov 26, 2006 6:41 pm

***NOTICE***

I won't be here during the week, I have classes so I won't be here to reply. You can still post, other people can give advise too.

So see you all next friday. Hope you all have a good week!

Sushi Roll · **Posted:** Wed Nov 29, 2006 8:57 pm

Ok, just today, I kissed my boi and hopped on the bus to go home from school. I was really glad about it and was excited too. Then, I heard some noises comming from the back of the bus. It was silent crying. I looked around through the passengers. My gaze fell upon my best friend, he was crying. He was crying because of me, because he saw me with my boi. It really hurt his feelings but, he won't admit it to me. I feel terrible. He's my best friend but, he likes me more than that. I don't share that feeling and it makes me sad that he is so upset about this. What should I do? What should I tell him so he doesn't feel so bad? Please help you guys!

Panic_Wolf · **Posted:** Wed Nov 29, 2006 9:38 pm

I had the same problem. First off, confront him. Ask him why. If he does tell you, try to think about not only how you would hurt him if you kicked him to the curb, but how your friendship would be affected.

But in the end I thought, my friendship with this guy was WAY more important to me than what I had with my boyfriend. But, I'm not you. So the choice is yours.

Sushi Roll · **Posted:** Thu Nov 30, 2006 3:41 pm

It's hard because these guys are both my best guy friends. I love them equally just one of them in a different way. I just don't want him to be upset.

Panic_Wolf · **Posted:** Sat Dec 02, 2006 7:24 pm

To me, my friends are more important that what I have w/ my ex. If you think it's worth losing a friendship over, then by all means go ahead. But if you want to still be friends, reach an agreement.

Aluewolf15 · **Posted:** Sun Dec 03, 2006 10:29 am

Yeah, listen to Panic_Wolf she knows what she's talkin bout.

(deleted user) · **Posted:** Sun Dec 03, 2006 10:31 am

Sounds very reasonable, though I would sugest keeping the friendship with your best friend because there will be other guys but a best friend is unreplacable.

Aluewolf15 · **Posted:** Sun Dec 03, 2006 10:39 am

I see your point.

Draco · **Posted:** Sun Dec 03, 2006 10:46 am

x_X_Emily_X_x wrote:

I just don't want him to be upset.

Well, he's going to be upset either way I think. It's going to be unavoidable. I'm sure you want to stay friends with him, right? So I agree with Panic Wolf. You need to sit down with him and have a long talk about how you feel only 'friendly' with him, and you don't want the relationship you have with you boyfriend to affect what you two have. He's going to be upset since he feels for you, but he should be atleast grateful you two are still close friends.

Sushi Roll · **Posted:** Sun Dec 03, 2006 1:02 pm

Thanks you guys!:p I'll try what Draco said or rather, Panic wolf.

Panic_Wolf · **Posted:** Sun Dec 03, 2006 7:58 pm

YAY! PEOPLE LISTEN TO ME! *claps hands*

Draco · **Posted:** Sun Dec 03, 2006 8:38 pm

Panic_Wolf wrote:

YAY! PEOPLE LISTEN TO ME! *claps hands*

Lol! XD

Sushi Roll · **Posted:** Tue Dec 05, 2006 4:03 pm

If you're a girl, you may be having mood swing type things. That happened to me, still does!XD I hope this helps a little bit! :wink:

Panic_Wolf · **Posted:** Tue Dec 05, 2006 4:21 pm

Maybe it's because you're stelwart and don't easily get nrevous. I can't exactly vouch for that, because I'm nervous all the time.

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