on the site:you go on ''send on site''then click ''private
message''next write the persons username in the box,and then
choose the the name in the list that comes up,now write your
message in it ,then click''send''and your private message is
sent to that person ok

on the forums:When you
look at someone's profile on the forums click ''private
message''and then fill the persons name in the box and write
your message and then click ''send'' ok[this wrks the same
on the site ]

Forums: When you look at someone's profile, you should see a
button that says "PM". Click it, fill it out, and send it.

Site: Click "Private Messages" on your control
panel, find the member's name, and fill it out from there.

just clip on the word private messages where it says your
user name and go down to where it says send a private
message to a member and click on it and then you have to
type in the members name a box whoever you want to sent
to.